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Do you have a community or do you practice alone?

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BronwynWolf:
Solitary. I was in a training group once, but egos destroyed it. Sometimes, Hubs, the Kidling and I celebrate together, but usually I do my own thing.

Tirya:
I started in a group, and learned a lot from them. They provided a foundation for me, and I still use much of what I learned with them. Unfortunately (as seems to happen A LOT), their idea of "what, how, and why" and my idea of "what, how, and why" ended up going in different directions, so I left the group and have been a solitary ever since. I enjoy group Sabbats when I find open ones around me (like the Lammas one that I wanted to go to this evening but missed because I overslept) but as far as "being part of a group", this Forum is as close as I get. :)

Nicodemus:
Thank you all for your replies. It seems in general that groups are helpful but can become swayed by people's wills. Practicing alone seems to be what I might expect from starting in Paganism.

I don't see an issue with practising alone but it will be useful in the near future to hear more experienced members feedback on how to do that, I now think. :)

Thanks!

Tirya:
The energy in a group is much different than the energy as a solitary (which is only to be expected), and I would highly recommend finding a group that you can at least attend some celebrations with - for example a CUUPS group - so you have a chance to not only experience that difference in energy, but also to expose you to different ways of looking at things and doing things. A lot of times I'll come back from a group gathering with some new ideas and things to try that simply hadn't occurred to me before. I'll also come back with things that definitely didn't resonate with me, so even though they worked for whoever designed the ritual, it's not "for me".

It doesn't mean I'm "part of the group", but similar to doing a lot of reading, having other points of view and being exposed to other ideas can help you better understand your own.

Nicodemus:
Thanks Tirya
I can see how it would be very educational and helpful. I hadn't heard of CUUPS before, I will see if there is something similar in my area and try to go along. I have a lot to learn and I am still not familiar with the basics so I will continue reading and hopefully get involved.

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