My sister was in our room after she showered and I wanted to get something 25 minutes or so after she'd been in there. She tells me to wait. I hear her singing. Fine, I wait. I knock again, I ask if I could just grab the one thing. She opens the door and snaps at me that she said to wait. I say you're dressed kid, just let me grab it. She said, very snottily, "I'm looking for something" and closes the door. Hardly a minute later she switches the blow dryer on.
Really? You're looking for something? You can't just let me in?
So I get the knife and jimmy open the door. All hell breaks loose. She flips out that I'm in the room, I ask what her issue is, she tells me to leave. I say if you're going to be mean to me then give me back my iPod dock that you're currently using. She says no. I say it's mine, she says no. Then she says I didn't pay for it. And she's right, I didn't. It was a gift from my mom for my birthday. My mom already broke the antennae on it in a fit of anger, and my sister has already dropped it on me. I pick up her camera and ask if the same concept goes for her camera. I get the death tone of "PUT.DOWN.MY.CAMERA." of course, snot that I am. I say not until you either let me in to get what I need (she's standing in my way and she's as big as me) or give me back my dock. She unplugs it...but not from the surge protector. She unplugs it from it's own cord and hands it to me. She tells me to get the cord myself. I get a little angrier because I don't know at this point what I did to her. Now, keep in mind I'm a step above her as I have one step leading down into my room. I lean forward and start flailing my hands yelling. Apparently she thought I was going to hit her because she hit me square in the face and sent my glasses flying.
I'm a witch when someone messes with my glasses. Glasses and cigarettes. Don't touch them ever for any reason and don't ever refuse to give them back to me. People used to steal my cigarettes from my jacket and then refuse to give them back or threaten to break them. Then I flipped out. Well, I flipped out here. I'm kind of ashamed to say I screamed at her "Get my <insert appropriate> glasses you <insert appropriate>."
She spent the next ten minutes telling me that I'm immature, childish, leave now, I'm not intimidating and the whole time I'm shaking trying to put my stuff together on my bed and I'm trying to remain passively aggressive about it because I knew after the glasses thing if I wasn't careful I would hit her.
Then she started saying she was going to tell my parents about things she knows I haven't gotten around to doing yet.
I don't even know if the question here is "am I wrong" but more "how did a 14 yr old make me lightheaded and cry to the point where I had to sit down in my kitchen and smoke what was left of my mom's cigarette in the ashtray?"